In the last article, 'How to set achievable goals' I used the analogy of imagining that you're climbing a mountain. The summit seems miles away, and the path ahead is steep and treacherous. Discouragement may easily set in. But what if you shifted your focus? Instead of dwelling on the distance to the top, celebrate reaching the next bend in the trail.
This might seem insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but it's a win nonetheless. It signifies progress, however small. And those small wins, when strung together, create momentum and keep you moving forward.
For me, this was especially significant. After spending 14 years in a wheelchair due to chronic pain, simply taking a step after my amputation was a monumental achievement. It wasn't the mountain summit, but it was the first bend in the trail. It was a win that proved the impossible was possible. And with every step I took after that, the wins kept coming. The first time I walked without assistance, the first time I ran again, the first time I competed - these were all significant milestones, but they all stemmed from that very first step, that very first ‘success’.
Just like climbing a mountain, there were setbacks along the way. There were days when the pain returned, days when I felt discouraged, days when I questioned if I'd ever reach my goals. But by focusing on the small wins, I was able to maintain perspective and keep moving forward. Every step, every improvement, no matter how small, was a victory. And those victories, strung together, paved the way for me to achieve things I never thought possible.